8 perspectives on your dreams

Dreaming is hot this year. Actually, the world of dreams and the dreaming mind has received great attention since sheltering in place began. While everyone dreams every night, some people report little-to-no recall. Many people only started paying attention to the dream lives with the arrival of 2020. Sheltering in place led to increased sleep among certain people who noticed an increase in dream recall. If attending to dreams is new for you, you may wonder what it all means. To help, I will share eight perspectives on the function of dreams.

The psychodynamic perspectives seem to be most familiar to dreamers. Freud would have said that dreams express hidden instincts and reflect one’s instinctual drives. Wish fulfillment may have played a part in the conversation analysts of Freudian dream theory. Around that time, Jung developed his own ideas. He is credited with the Compensatory or Complementary Hypothesis which suggests that dreams are a natural expression of our imagination. Furthermore, dreams, he would tell us, integrate our conscious and unconscious lives.

As time went on, and science further developed, Hobson’s Activation-synthesis Hypothesis claimed that dreams were not as meaningful as once believed because dreams arose from neurochemical changes in the brain, nothing more. But this wasn’t the only explanation for dreaming. A cognitive perspective emerged where Hall posited that dreams are continuous with the dreamer’s waking concepts, meaning that one’s dreams reflect one’s waking life concerns. This is known as the Continuity Hypothesis. Attention has been given to developmental perspectives as well, so theories of information processing and dreams are also important to consider. In this territory, we marry dreams with memory consolidation. We can’t deny that dreaming plays an important role in the life of every human. Dreams help process and organize stimuli from the day as well as help us store information into memory. Let us not forget the role dreams play in human evolution! Dreaming has an adaptive function and threat stimulation theories abound. Consider all that dreams do here: Dreams help us adapt to current life situations and circumstances; Dreams provide an opportunity to perceive and avoid threats; From a social aspect, dreams allow for practice and even the strengthening of social bonds. It is not necessary to recall every dream because much of this takes place below conscious awareness. Have you ever wondered how dreams might aid in the processing of emotions? Hartmann’s contributions towards emotional processing theories are worthy of attention. Did you know that dreams help us to process emotional experiences and even adapt to them? Dreams partly do this because they integrate recent emotional experiences with other past experiences – ie they’re very associative. Furthermore, dreams can help us to solve problems in that way (though more emotional problems/conflicts in life). On a personal note, my dreams have been very valuable for such reasons.

Transpersonal psychology has something to say about dreaming as well. Images and symbols are part of us and reveal the dynamics of our inner life. Dreams show us, in symbolic form, all of the different personalities that interact within us and make up our total self.

Last, but not least, are perspectives on dreaming that emerge from traditional ways of knowing and indigenous cultures around the world. Here, we acknowledge soul and spirit, and the interconnectedness of all beings. Dreams serve to guide and offer spiritual sustenance. When we dream, our soul may travel. These perspectives are more fluid. There is little or no separation among waking and dreaming states, or those in between.

So, are you recalling your dreams lately? If so, I hope you are keeping a dream diary! When reflecting on your dreams, refer to this article as often as you like. There are several perspectives to consider! Consider one or all of them when determining the meaning of your dreams.

If you’d like to take a deep dive, and have a blast doing so, you may want to attend my October dream retreat in Mexico. Information can be found here: https://consciouschimera.com/retreats/

I wish you a rich dream life,

Dr. Kim

be still and know

Almost immediately after posting the last blog, I learned of the death of Zen Master Thich Nhat Hanh. If there is one word to describe him, I’d say it is PEACE. In honor of this global spiritual leader, I dedicate this piece of writing to Thich Nhat Hanh as well as all those who live, act and lead with compassion. 

What I feel most moved to share here, today, are about a dozen of my favorite sayings, or quotes, from diverse spiritually-based lineages. Of course, I will begin with a few wise words of Thich Nhat Hanh

“The past no longer is, the future is not yet here; there is only one moment in which life is available, and that is the present moment.” 

“When we are mindful, deeply in touch with the present moment, our understanding of what is going on deepens, and we begin to be filled with acceptance, joy, peace and love.”

“Life is available only in the present. That is why we should walk in such a way that every step can bring us to the here and the now.”

Taoism also embodies great wisdom. Here are some sayings attributed to Lao Tzu:

A good traveler has no fixed plans and is not intent on arriving.

Care about what other people think and you will always be their prisoner.

Nature does not hurry, yet everything is accomplished.

Stop thinking, and end your problems.

And, of course, who doesn’t love Rumi? Here are some of the mystic lessons emerging out of the inspiration of Sufism:

Remember, the entrance door to the sanctuary is inside you.

You are not a drop in the ocean. You are the ocean in an entire drop.

If the light is in your heart, you will find your way home.

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We have living treasures as well. If you are a Nor Cal local, you may have spent time at Spirit Rock and sat with Buddhist monk Dr. Jack Kornfield. Below you will find a couple noteworthy quotes: 

“As surely as there is a voyage away, there is a journey home.”

“Everything that has a beginning has an ending. Make your peace with that and all will be well.”

And last, but definitely not least, I want to put attention on His Holiness Tenzin Gyatso, the 14th Dalai Lama. I wish to see him in-person one day. However, I will close with one of his sayings that now feels somewhat ironic:

“Remember that sometimes not getting what you want is a wonderful stroke of luck.”

This month makes another Conscious Chimera anniversary, and another Valentine’s Day. Thank you for following my blog and reading these writings I share with the world!

May you know love and peace,

~Dr. Kim